My family and I are looking forward to the fundraising evening which we have organised on 6th May 2011, in memory of Dad. Although it will be a difficult time for us, raising money and most importantly awareness of lymphatic cancer, makes us feel very positive. It will be a jamm packed evening, which will include a top prize auction and raffle. What's more, the UK's top Bee Gees tribute band, 'Staying Alive UK' will be performing, starring our cousin Bill Howard as Barry Gibb! It seems really appropriate to have 'Staying Alive UK' performing on the night. Dad did not like to dance at parties, but he took a particular liking to the song 'Staying Alive' after watching a scene from the film 'Airplane', starring Leslie Nielsen. I have many fond memories of dragging my Dad up on the dance floor to this song. You could see him enjoying the music and getting into character and this would always put a smile on people's faces! I know that Dad will be really pleased that we are raising money for this charity and the night will be perfect, just as he was!

Our Dad Alec, was a very devoted husband, caring Father and a loyal friend to many. He had various interests which included wildlife and classical music and he enjoyed sharing these with others. Dad also had many talents, which included photography and drawing and he was a brilliant source of general knowledge, although he always remained modest. It was only when he married our Mother, Annetta that he really blossomed into the person that we all loved. He generally had a quiet nature, but Mam brought him out of his shell; he was always friendly and made conversation when people came to visit. Dad also had a great sense of humour and would put a smile on everyone’s face. He loved our Mam very much and would do whatever it took to make her happy. Our Mam also brought out Dad’s warmth and affectionate side, he cared for his family and he loved spending quality time together. He was the best Dad in the world; a good listener and very supportive. He was not only a Father, but a true friend and we feel very proud to have called him our Dad. Our Dad was a strong believer in helping others and he was always willing to support his family and friends and give to others less fortunate. He would always put others first and he never complained. We cherish the years we have spent with him, he was one in a million and we’ll love him always.

Thank you for setting up this memorial to Alec Cuthbert. We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.